This pretty much says it all about how my day has been.

When my wife can’t find her keys, I assume it is because she is careless. When I can’t find my keys I naturally put it down to bad luck. The curious thing is that she always assumes the opposite – that she’s the one with the bad luck, and I’m the careless one.

When we observe other people we attribute their behaviour to their character rather than to their situation – my wife’s carelessness means she loses her keys, your clumsiness means you trip over, his political opinions mean that he got into an argument.

When we think about things that happen to us the opposite holds. We downplay our own dispositions and emphasise the role of the situation. Bad luck leads to lost keys, a hidden bump causes trips, or a late train results in an unsuccessful job interview – it’s never anything to do with us.

This pattern is so common that psychologists have called it the fundamental attribution error. -Tom Stafford

Writing Prompt: Write a story, scene or poem where the conflict is created by fundamental attribution error.

Journaling Prompt: Write about a time when you found yourself making a fundamental attribution error.

Art Prompt: Fundamental Attribution Error

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